23 03, 2018

Balancing work & divorce: 10 tips!

By | maart 23rd, 2018|blog|0 Comments

Talk to your manager about your personal situation, mainly sharing the broad lines, not the details.  Structure your time, both at home and at work. Talk with your family and friends, and write down your thoughts and feelings to help process your situation.   Be aware that the people in your environment might feel powerless. Don’t ask for solutions, ask [...]

23 03, 2018

7 golden tips when your employee is going through a divorce

By | maart 23rd, 2018|blog|0 Comments

Know your employee. Know what is happening, also at home, so you can provide timely support.   Listen to your colleague and acknowledge the (emotional) situation, whilst keeping the helicopter view.   Help your colleague structure work and time.  Stimulate your colleague to take good care of him/herself by for example eating healthy food and exercise.   Co-create an appropriate [...]

13 03, 2018

Watching is judging; seeing is caring!

By | maart 13th, 2018|blog|0 Comments

The other day I was giving a presentation for a group of about 35 people. I was telling a personal story. I was nervous, and while I was speaking, I felt as if I was standing on a balcony, watching myself speak. It made me feel insecure, even more nervous, and as if I was being judged. Thoughts like: “You [...]

6 02, 2018

Hoe ga je om met je werk wanneer je in scheiding ligt? – 10 tips

By | februari 6th, 2018|blog|6 Comments

Scheiden staat op 2e plaats van de meest stressvolle momenten uit ons leven. Door de ervaren stress en chaos die ontstaat door een scheiding, maak je je meer zorgen, slaap je vaak slechter, kun je je moeilijker concentreren, weet je het soms gewoon allemaal niet meer. Er zijn veel onzekerheden over financiën, de eventuele zorg voor de kinderen, je woonsituatie, [...]

10 01, 2018

Wat kun je doen als werkgever, wanneer je werknemer in scheiding ligt? – 7 tips

By | januari 10th, 2018|blog|0 Comments

Scheiden staat op de tweede plaats van de meest stressvolle momenten uit ons leven. Door de ervaren stress en chaos die ontstaat door een scheiding, is een werknemer minder goed in staat op het werk te presteren. Onderzoek wijst uit dat; werknemers in scheiding het Nederlands bedrijfsleven een half miljard per jaar kosten; een werknemer in scheiding dubbel zoveel verzuimt [...]

6 03, 2017

Conflict situations: yell, ignore or …

By | maart 6th, 2017|blog|2 Comments

Conflicts make thousands of refugees fleeing around the world, finding a safe place to live – Iran, Iraq, Afghanistan, Syria, Israel and Palestine, Libya, so many. I feel horrible hearing the news, watching people trying to find food or water when there is a cease-fire for 24 hours. Why are we doing this to each other? These are complicated conflicts, [...]

26 08, 2016

The 3 key elements of making meaningful connections

By | augustus 26th, 2016|blog|2 Comments

By taking the time to stop in the midst of our busy days, look around us, pause for a minute, even with 6 meetings scheduled back-to-back, we are able to read people around us even more, making our work and relationships even richer. You will find that taking a few moments for yourself before you get into the next meeting [...]